tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2023720725427123521.post4139887684254717825..comments2009-04-28T12:41:34.800+05:30Shrinked Immaculatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13926816873573274145noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2023720725427123521.post-74641532483950516802009-04-28T12:41:00.000+05:302009-04-28T12:41:00.000+05:30Good to see you Nisha ji, I don't know what I would do without you.Shrinked Immaculatehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13926816873573274145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2023720725427123521.post-85175696105789378302009-04-25T02:52:00.000+05:302009-04-25T02:52:00.000+05:30Dear Doc,<br />Anger is a natural feeling, experienced when you feel frustrated, hurt, rejected or hostile. i guess this is a conditioned response and in your case it seems like "your uncle" is the Trigger. I dont need to explain the Pavlov theory as you are aware of it, However I want you to understand that, at present your uncle is not hurting you anyway. Your past memory of him is hurting you, so this is taking place in your mind rather than anywhere else. However you dont have control over the response from your body, when your eyes see him or ears hear his name, you react, rather your body is reacting and you dont have control over it. Know that your are being controlled by the past memories of your relatives, however the body/brain is reacting as this is taking place in the here and now. So we need to work with your "inner child"( neural-pathways)who is carrying these past-memories, once you release the negative energy that you acquired in the past from your relatives, you will feel inner peace and their names or their presence will no longer control your emotional life.<br />However the charges are high now as I am suffering from credit crunch. hehe. <br /><br />you must realise that your relatives presence, their names and anything related to them is controlling your emotional well-being It's a powerful emotion, and unless it's managed properly, it can have a devastating effect on your family, your work and your overall wellbeing. I am happy to help you as I am a well-wisher and wonderful friend of yours. :):)<br />However I will send a bill for this first and we will work together for rest of our lives. haha.<br />Nishadelusionary-illusionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10961504533263842795noreply@blogger.com